of Conway, AR
July 24, 1949 - January 20, 2019
Jerry Grinder, our beloved ''Honey'' -who has always watched over and cared for the needs of his Family above all things- departed this earth as we know it, January 20, 2019 to join our loved ones in the spirit and to prepare and make cozy for his family, our home in Heaven. We know it will be warm and inviting, just as Jerry always made sure it was for everyone he loved on every day.
Before everything else, Jerry was a truly devoted and loving family man who loved his family so much that they couldn't help but love and adore him too. He spent every waking hour trying to accommodate a better life through every effort for family and friends. That is what made him happy. That is what made him ''Honey''. No better term of endearment could describe the fruits of labor, the sweet blessing and absolute joy of his presence. While he could fix anything, he also ensured our safety by every measure and he listened to the needs of family and friends, quietly meeting or exceeding those expectations without being asked. Because most notably, he was a kind man with a beautiful spirit and a warm heart. He was smart, funny, outspoken at times but always genuine and caring. In moments of family distress, he was the calm in the eye of the storm. Jerry was more than we could have ever imagined or asked for and words will never fully interpret his presence, our loss, or how much we loved him.
Jerry was born the 4th of 5 children to George and Lucille Grinder in N Little Rock, AR. He is survived by his adoring wife of 43 years, Helen Rice Grinder, his 93 year old mother Lucille, his sister Georgia Kersey (Skip), and their children: his older brother Jim Grinder and his children; and his younger brother Dale Grinder (Kathy) and their children. And also survived by Nancy Grinder (who was preceded in death by her husband, Jerry's older brother Danny Grinder). He is also survived by his brother-in-law, Johnny Michael Rice and Nephew John Alton Rice; his Sister-in-law, Jeannie Michelle Rice, and Niece Summer Rae Rice Stanton and Nephew Jagger Michael Rice Stanton, his daughter, Pamela Puckett and grandson., Jayden Grinder.
Jerry was preceded in death by his father, George Grinder, and his older brother, Danny Grinder.
Jerry was a member of United Association Of Plumbers, Pipefitters, and Steamfitters , Local 155. He actively worked the trade from the age of 18 until 34 years of age; however even after his service to the industry, he continued to support the trade, paid his union dues, and contributed to the fund providing for deceased union members, receiving his 50 year acknowledgement membership achievement award.
Jerry and Helen then started Grinder Paint Horse Ranch. Jerry oversaw day-to-day operations, breeding and caring for, at one time, over one hundred head of stallions, mares and colts. He and Helen shared a love and passion for animals and spent much of their time tending to and providing a loving home to the horses on the ranch.
Visitation will be at Roller McNutt Funeral Home on Tuesday January 22, 2019 form 6:00pm-8:00pm. Funeral Services will be January 23, 2019 at 10:00am. Internment will be at Thorn Cemetery in Greenbrier following Funeral Services.
Pallbearers: Josh Furgerson, Greg Sallis, Rod Grinder, Mark Grinder, David Grinder, Ronnie Clendenin
Honorary Pallbearers: Johnny Michael. Rice, John Alton Rice, , Dr. Jeffrey Kirsch, John Wayne Carter, Jayden Grinder, Jared Kelley, Michael Grinder, Bob Rigdon, , Corey Horn , Danny Petty, Jesse Rice, Cody Rice, Eddie Lipsmeyer, Randy Duncan, Bart Puckett.
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19 Condolence(s)
Tollece Sutter
Monday, January 28, 2019
There are no words that are good enough to say how sorry I am to Helen and the whole family. One can only wish to be lucky enough to experience the love that this family has . May God bring you peace and understanding.
Derek Ladd
Friday, January 25, 2019
I was very saddened to hear of Jerry's passing. I spent several years during high school and college working for the Grinder's on their horse ranch. I learned a lot during those years about hard work, determination, perseverance, diligence and friendship. Jerry and Helen took a green-horn kid with little knowledge of country living and patiently taught me many of life's lessons over those years. I have numerous good memories of my time working with them. I pray that his family will find comfort in the many wonderful memories of their time spent together.
Jerry and Janis Garrett Robbins
Thursday, January 24, 2019
Helen Rice and families, so sorry to hear this sad news, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Praying for strength and comfort for all of you. Love you.
Bob Barham & Family
Wednesday, January 23, 2019
Helen and Family:
We are deeply saddened to learn of this news. Jerry was a wonderful, friendly guy and he will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you as you grieve.
God Bless,
Bob Barham
Joanne Barham
Sherrye Balmaz
Wednesday, January 23, 2019
Helen, my deepest sympathy for your and your family's loss. I was shocked when I heard of your husband's passing and knew that he was your world. If it is in giving that we receive Jerry had a full very rich life. Prayers for you and your family at this difficult time.
Sherrye Balmaz
Cissy L Ashlock
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
Aunt Sis,
I am so so very sorry for your loss. I know how much Uncle Jerry meant to you. I cherish my time with you and him and will never forget those moments. I love you so very much. My thoughts are with you and the family.
Love always,
Cissy Lynn
Kenneth Fuchs
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
I am so sorry. He was a great guy and I was blessed to know him. I am just so shocked now, my prayers and love to Helen, Jeannie.and everyone else.
Jesse and Betty Rice
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
Saddened by his passing , praying for everyone in the famillies comfort during this trying time, He will be greatly missed by us all !
Greg and Tammy Lee
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
Helen, so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know we are sending thoughts and prayers during this difficult time for you and your family.
Robin Moix
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
Sissy and the family, I am so sorry for your loss. Jerry was always the sweetest soul. He had the sweetest smile, gave warm hugs, and made the best chili. I am glad to have known him, I am glad you had him as long as you did-even if it was not long enough. That sucks. I love you.
Robin Longing
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
My deepest condolences to Helen and all of the family. Praying for you all.
Jaci Birdsong
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
Helen and family - my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult time.
Becky Daniels
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
I'm so sorry for your loss, I will be praying for you and your family. Love to y'all â¤ï¸
Denton & Zachary, PLLC
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
Our very deepest sympathy for the loss of your beloved "Honey."
Sincerely and With Love,
Joe Denton, Justin Zachary, Andrew Norwood, and Vicki Allbritton
Shirley Hardee
Tuesday, January 22, 2019
Helen, words fall short of expressing the sadness of hearing about your loss. Thinking of you and your family. And, praying for comfort and peace for all of you through the days ahead.
Becky Green
Monday, January 21, 2019
Helen
I am so sorry to read about Jerry's passing. You are in our thoughts & prayers.
Rick and Melinda Reynolds
Monday, January 21, 2019
Helen and family. I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in our prayers.
Jeff and Tracie Kelley
Monday, January 21, 2019
So very sorry. There was not a better man. Always helping others. He will be sorely missed.
Melissa Phillips
Monday, January 21, 2019
RIP fly high my friend