of Alexander, AR
June 11, 1955 - December 23, 2025
James ''Jim'' Richard Grafe, age 70, of Avilla, Arkansas, passed away peacefully in his sleep on December 23, 2025, surrounded by his loving children and grandchildren.
Jim was born on June 11, 1955. He enjoyed a long and rewarding career, retiring after more than 20 years of service with Martin Marietta Materials. Jim had a passion for spending time with his family and friends, whether that meant hunting, fishing, camping, or indulging in his love for shopping. However, his greatest joy was always the moments shared with his family, creating memories that will be cherished for years to come.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Henry and Wanda Grafe; his beloved wife, Dianna Grafe; two brothers, Henry ''Barney'' Grafe Jr. and Lynn Grafe; a great-grandson, Remington Hall; as well as his niece, Cassie Hightower, and nephew, Jeremy Grafe.
Jim is survived by his brother, Mike (Debbie) Grafe; his children, Jessica Bardales, Bryan (Krista) Grafe, and Becky (Marcelo) Franco; nine grandchildren, Noah (Madison) Hall, Zoë (Tanner) Oden, Kaylynn Grafe, Trista Grafe, Annalicia Martinez, Ada Bardales, Mariah Bardales, and Christian Grafe; three great-grandchildren, Roman, Baylor, and Warren Oden; along with extended family and many dear friends.
A funeral service will be held on Tuesday, December 30, 2025, at 10:00 AM at Zion Lutheran Church, 300 Avilla E, Alexander, AR 72002, with Pastor Willie Grills officiating. Burial will follow at the Zion Lutheran Church Cemetery.
Visitation will take place at the church on Tuesday, December 30, from 9:00 AM until the service begins.
Pallbearers will include Bryan Grafe, Noah Hall, Marcelo Franco, Jake Cauffiel, BJ Hayre, Michael Williams, and Johnathan Rogers.
Arrangements are under the care of Roller-Alcoa Funeral Home of Benton.
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Lawrence Armstrong
Saturday, January 3, 2026
He was a good man
David Gilbert
Monday, December 29, 2025
Michelle Thompson
Sunday, December 28, 2025
Jim was a great man, he was always nice to me and always made me smile and laugh. Rest in Peace
Sammy venable
Sunday, December 28, 2025
Sorry for your loss my condolences to Krista and her family
Bill Bradley
Saturday, December 27, 2025
Michael Williams
Saturday, December 27, 2025
Uncle Jim was the kind of man who showed love simply by caring.
After my wife lost her father in 2017, Uncle Jim became a steady and meaningful presence in her life. His faith was genuine and reflected in the way he treated people — with kindness, consistency, and sincerity.
He checked in on our family because he wanted to, and while talking with my wife, he would ask how my parents were doing. That thoughtfulness spoke to who he was.
Uncle Jim enjoyed the simple things — smoking BBQ ribs, hunting, and spending time with people he cared about. He offered help when it mattered, never seeking recognition, just doing what felt right.
He was a good man and an important part of our family’s life. He will be missed and remembered with gratitude.
Tina Calhoun, RN
Saturday, December 27, 2025
I'm very sorry for the family's loss. Mr. Grafe was very sweet and a pleasure to be around.
Bud & pat Reeves
Saturday, December 27, 2025
Jim was our family not just a friend we will miss him dearly. Jim's family was his life his children and grandchildren meant everything to him. We will miss the fishing camping and hunting trips with you. Till we see you again in heaven Jim rest in peace.
Rita Hall
Friday, December 26, 2025
Jim will be truly missed our thoughts and prayers go out to all of his family. Hugs .
Jenna Jones
Friday, December 26, 2025
Krista and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family.