of Mountain Home, AR
September 30, 2018
What he said, and what he didn't say were equally important to Larry Monroe Havner. This man of few words passed away on September 30th, at the age of 69, with his wife, of 46 years, Joyce Lantz Havner, by his side. Ever willful and decisive, when he told her he had to go she knew he meant it and stayed with him until his last breath. Larry was born on March 16, 1949 in Norfork, AR.
Larry was a thinker and a man of subtleties; often the power of his words came more from the look in his eyes, the set of his mouth, and the tone of his voice, than from the words spoken. His daughter, Kim Havner Pace, and son, Clayton Havner, along with friends, learned this growing up as he could stop feet or hush mouths with little more than a look.
Larry was fond of teasing, joking and banter. To be on the receiving end of his attentions was a sure sign of affection. He met strangers with optimism, humility and sincerity. Friends and family, he met with a quiet steady love.
Larry sacrificed greatly for his country and his family. A Vietnam veteran, he served in the Navy from 1967-1971. He worked on the road in telecommunications for many years where he met some of his most cherished friends. It was a gift when he came home. Larry had an entrepreneurial spirit; Clayton now owns the business he created, Monuments and More.
His four grandchildren were a source of constant pride for Larry. He relished their uniquenesses, their stories and achievements, and every single sloppy, grimy, sticky hug and kiss they ever gave him.
Larry leaves behind his wife, Joyce Havner, his children, Clayton Havner, Kim Havner Pace and Son-In-Law Mike Pace, his grandchildren, Hudson Pace, Liam Pace, Lincoln Havner and Grayson Havner, siblings Judy Harris, Garry Harris, Lura Harris Burns, Carl Havner, David Havner and Lee Partee and many more beloved aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. He was preceded in death by his mother, Berlie Harris, step father John Harris, father LeRoy Havner and sister Willa Harris.
A visitation will be held from 6-8 Friday, October 5, 2018 at Roller Funeral Home Chapel. Funeral services will be held at Lone Rock Baptist Church at 2pm, Saturday, October 6, 2018. Internment will follow at the Burnt School House Cemetery. Arrangements are under the direction of Roller Funeral Home. Please visit our online guestbook at www.rollerfuneralhomes.com/mtnhome.
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19 Condolence(s)
Tina Benton
Tuesday, October 9, 2018
Joyce so sorry for your loss, hugs and prayers.
Clinton Pittaway
Monday, October 8, 2018
I got to know Larry thru his business. We visited quite a bit and as fellow Viet Nam Veterans, became friends. Larry helped me a lot with several monuments for my siblings. Larry was a good man and a good friend. I will miss him. My sincere condolences and prayers to all his family.
Judy HarrisEw
Sunday, October 7, 2018
We will miss you Big Brother, Love Judy, Garry, Lura
Sissy Wells
Sunday, October 7, 2018
Joyce, I am praying for you and your family as you grieve the loss of Larry...I know his cancer has been so hard for you, but we still have a hard time letting go.
Christi Todd
Saturday, October 6, 2018
Joyce, I know you and Larry had a wonderful life together. You will have those memories to hold onto forever. I am so very sorry for what both Larry and you have been through for the past several months, and for your loss now.
Kris , Jessica , Paris and Kloie Beard
Friday, October 5, 2018
Our deepest sympathies. Keeping your family in our prayers for comfort during this time of loss.
Linda Lopin
Friday, October 5, 2018
Joyce - I'm glad I got to know you & Larry at wood carving class. Those weeks in class were so much fun! We spent a lot of time laughing. We didn't have him with us long enough. You are in my thoughts & prayers.
Rob Collins
Friday, October 5, 2018
My deepest condolences to you and your family for the loss of Larry. Prayers are with you. From my family to yours.
Dianna Roller
Friday, October 5, 2018
To all of Larry's family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences. You have my deepest and heartfelt sympathy at this very difficult time. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care of yourselves. It is never easy to lose a loved one. May Larry rest in peace.
Sincerely and in Rainbow Love,
Dianna (Talley )Roller
Phillip Hayden
Thursday, October 4, 2018
Greatful to have known Larry Havner. He was everything his obituary says and more. Joyce, Clayton and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am saddened by your loss. Sincerely, Phillip Hayden.
Paula Roddy
Thursday, October 4, 2018
Joyce&family
so sorry for your loss
with sincere sympathy&utmost condolences
Prayers for all
Paula Roddy(HARRIS)
Leslie & Dwayne Roberts
Wednesday, October 3, 2018
Sending lots of hugs and prayers for the family! Larry was a great person. He will be missed by many!
Larry & Earlene Woody
Wednesday, October 3, 2018
Dear Joyce,Clayton , Kim & Family:
As stated earlier, Larry's obituary tells the most important facts of his life. He was a man of integrity , honesty and good-will to everyone who met him. Larry made many friends in his life and he earned the respect of those who knew him.
We cherish all the memories and we are thinking of you all in this time.
Best wishes, Larry & Earlene Woody
Ann Messick
Wednesday, October 3, 2018
Where to begin? First with our deepest condolences for the family and other loved ones that are grieving the loss of one of the most honest, faithful, giving hardworking husband, father, grandfather, uncle, cousin I was honored to call family. Randall and I are so sorry for the loss of this man. I will forever remember his laugh, how he laughed at about everything I said telling a story or just expressing myself. How kind and giving he was to others. How he thought of others before himself, he was truly a selfless man. We will always remember our card games and music playing days that we had together and how much We appreciate what we learned from this family, our family, along the way. Joyce, Kim and Clayton we love you and I’m/we’re here for you, always. Prayers for peace and comfort through this next journey. Larry Havner Rest In Peace and know you will never escape our hearts, you were truly a fine human being. Until we meet again. Randall, Ann & Beth
DW
Tuesday, October 2, 2018
So sorry for your loss may you find peace and comfort in the words spoken at 2 Corinthians 1:3 & 4" Praised be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our trials so that we may be able to comfort others in any sort of trial with the comfort that we receive from God
Deb Baker
Tuesday, October 2, 2018
So very sorry for your tremendous loss. Such honorable words spoken in his tribute. In my prayers.
Donna Duggins
Tuesday, October 2, 2018
So truly sorry for your loss. The obituary described Larry perfectly. I will be keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. Joyce the adventures of life you and Larry shared could only have happened when you chose to work with Larry full time. May God carry you through this sorrowful time.
Kathy koskey
Tuesday, October 2, 2018
Kim, I am so sorry for the loss of your father. May he Rest In Peace
Max Parnell
Sunday, September 30, 2018
Joyce & Clayton,
You have my sympathy. I truly enjoyed my association with Larry. He was a true gentleman.